It Is Better To Complain About Your Boss Than To Reflect On Yourself.

I read a little story in disorder.

The main idea of the story is as follows:

    有一个人极不满意自己的工作。一次，他忿忿地对朋友说：“我的上司一点也不把我放在眼里，改日我要对他拍桌子，然后辞职不干！”“你对那家贸易公司完全弄清楚了吗？对于他们做国际贸易的窍门完全搞通了吗？”朋友反问道。“没有！”“古人说‘君子报仇三年不晚’。我建议你还是好好地把他们的一切贸易技巧、商业文书和公司组织完全搞通，甚至连怎样修理影印机的小故障都学会，然后辞职不干。”朋友说。那人觉得朋友的“建议”有道理——以公司做免费学习之所，什么东西都通了之后，再一走了之，为此不是既出了气，又有许多收获吗？自此，他默记偷学，甚至下班之后，还留在办公室里研习写商业文书的方法。一晃一年过去。一天，那人和朋友又见面了。朋友问：“你现在大概把公司的一切都学会了，可以准备拍桌子不干了吧？”然而，那人却红着脸说：“可是我发现近半年来，老板对我刮目相看，最近更总是委以重任，又升官，又加薪，我已经成为公司的红人了！”

This story is somewhat "O Henry style" meaning.

From the "information" revealed by the story, the man who was once very dissatisfied with his work had been able to dispel his boss's "clapping the table, and then quit the job", because he had no reason not to cherish the sight of the "beautiful village".

It is truly enviable that a person can quickly express himself in the face of adversity and lack of opportunity.

However, in my opinion, the most worthwhile thing is the "friend" in the story, especially the wise and well advised exhortation.

His words are full of wisdom and good intentions, because it not only points out a way of "self renovation" for the protagonists of the story, but also exhortations give people a common mistake which is easily dyed and easily overlooked, that is, when we are not able to occupy the "weight" in the minds of our superiors, we often only know a lot of dungeons and complain about the attitude of the superiors, but refuse to look at themselves calmly and objectively reflect on themselves.

What does "force" have?

In fact, it is one of the essential skills for a person to cultivate his virtue and to enhance himself's strength of living.

Because of this, the words "I have three provinces and my own body" have become the famous saying of the ages. Zhu Xicai, a Dali scholar in Song Dynasty, wrote the eight characters in the list of "White Deer hole academy", which is written by the great writer Han Yu in the Tang Dynasty.

No patient can be treated without any injustice. "

In people's habit of thinking, it seems that "injustice" between the boss and his subordinates seems to be on the contrary.

Whether it's up to down or down, "injustice" is something people don't want to see.

Therefore, from time to time, we should face up to ourselves, reflect on ourselves, or be a way to recognize our superiors fairly.