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Eye Etiquette For Business Etiquette

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Gaze

etiquette

Because of national and cultural differences.

For example, Americans use more eyes to see each other than most Asians. If an American speaks with a Chinese, Americans may mistaken the Chinese for their nervousness and lack.

self-confidence

Or impolitely.

And the Chinese will feel that the American eyes are somewhat unbridled.

This is because Chinese people use fewer eyes than Americans.

At the same time, Americans are used to looking at each other's eyes when they are talking formally.

In the interaction between people, the role of the eyes is more important, expressive and infectious than the sound language. Therefore, in the process of face-to-face communication, we should pay attention to different eye etiquette for different objects.

Eye etiquette mainly includes four kinds of gaze:

1. official gazed

Public gaze is mainly used for negotiation.

business

A gaze behavior used in trade negotiations.

This gaze is to look at the triangle on the face of the interlocutor, with the eyes as the bottom line and the top corner to the forehead.

When you talk about business, if you look at this part of the party, you will be serious. Others will feel that you are sincere.

In the process of conversation, if you always fall on this triangle, you will grasp the initiative and control of the conversation.

2. social gaze

Social gaze is a gaze behavior that people use in social situations.

The gaze is also used to look at the triangle in the face of the other. This triangle takes two eyes as the line, the mouth is below the top corner, that is, between the eyes and the mouth. When you look at the part of the face on the other side, it creates a social atmosphere.

This gaze is mainly used for tea parties, dance parties and various types of friendship parties.

3. intimate gaze

Close gaze is mainly a kind of gaze behavior between men and women, especially between loved ones and lovers.

This gaze is between the eyes of the interlocutors and the thorax.

When a man has a special preference for the woman or the latter, he usually looks at the other side.

Of course, when you concentrate on the chest area of your partner, it's only appropriate for a lover to look at it.

4. side saccades

Side scan is a gaze act to express interest, favor, contempt or hostility.

This gaze behavior is accompanied by a smile and a slightly raised eyebrow. It is a signal of interest. If the eyebrows droop and the corners of the mouth drop, it will indicate a suspicion, contempt, hostility or critical signal.

In general business occasions, we usually use official gaze or social gaze to create a solemn or harmonious atmosphere.